u/Rough_Contribution81

I don't understand why I take so much of time to complete a task. whatever I do, I ensure that there's no scope for error. I'll check and recheck my calculations. but that consumes up a lot of my time. By the time I come home, I'm tired and exhausted and not motivated enough to do anything productive. am I doing something wrong? where should I stop and move on so that I'm not wasting my time.

For example, I was doing GST Reco, that took up so much time because I was not able to tally as per books. I was getting huge differences.

I unnecessarily stress out then wherever not required. I am very serious and nervous most of the time. How can I adopt a calm mindset? That's very crucial.

We often unnecessarily at times put so much of pressure on ourselves to achieve everything at such a young age

Fueled by early childhood experiences, where we were rewarded for academic excellence, led us to believe that we are capable of continuing the same

That if we were to continue to succeed academically, we would be rewarded for the same that lead us to strive for perfectionism

When you see yourself outperforming your peers, narcissism naturally occurs. You start thinking of yourself as superior and others inferior to you

When actually narcissism serves as a tool to hide one's insecurities they contain about themselves