Need advice tbh
Was talking to this girl for the past month both in our early twenties and we were going good. Then outve no where one night I had brought something up that I really wasn’t fucking with. I guess I brought it up on in the wrong way and it bothered her. So she did end up ghosting a bit then she told me she wasn’t ready for anything right now. but we still talk and stuff.
What I said was I didn’t want her to go out anymore and that if she couldn’t stop it was gonna become an issue. I honestly brought it up the wrong way cause i don’t care that she goes out it was just the consistency of it like 4 days outve the week every week.
Recently she sent this message:
“To address the rest cuz I’m sure you want to know where I stand at, I’m still firm when it comes to trying for a relationship, this experience showed me that I’m not really ready for a relationship and that I still need to keep working on me and figure out what I really want. And no shade but you need to aswell I feel like you’re in the right direction but you still need to do some healing and not be too hard on yourself sometimes. I still care about you and I’m here if you need anything. I’m not saying wait for me, I still want you to live your life but maybe in the future si se dan las cosas otra vez to where I’m fully ready and healed and so are you and you’re single still then I would like to try one more time.”
Yesterday she said she didn’t wanna lose the connection/still wanted me part of her life/ wasn’t cutting things off completely that we could also continue to hang out and talk but that she need time to herself. Y’all think she’s completely done? Or like there’s still a chance stuff could develop?