u/Royal_Virus_4411 — reddlx

My husband cheated on me @22 weeks pregnant with many women, including my little sister (Indiana)

Location: Indiana
Incident & Police/MOP happened in Tennessee

My soon to be ex husband & i are both 27, We are expecting our 1st child together in October. Shortly before he left for (army) deployment, I discovered he has been cheating on me with many different women including my little sister. He left me with no toilet paper, no food, no gasoline in my car or any money in my high risk pregnancy… while spending our marital assets in hush money, adult content, dating apps, drugs, lunch/dinners/travel expenses on his affairs, etc.

He has been extremely violent with me thru my pregnancy and I have paid for the police reports to prove it (which include body cam footage of him threatening his own life & possibly mine as well.) The army placed a no contact protection order on my behalf which remains effective until its signed off by a captain & is nonexpiry. I am also supposed to be receiving spousal support due to his negligence & not being able to work in my pregnancy. I have unfortunately went over 3 weeks without any money to my name as i spent the last of what i had uprooting my life to leave him in Tennessee & come back to our homestate of Indiana.

I found out he was driving his eldest daughter around (2 years old) on drugs the day of our baby shower. I have bank transactions of drug purchases + screenshots of him admitting to one of his affair partners that he was on substances at the time. I have decided that I do NOT want him in our baby’s life. He has completely destroyed our marriage/family, the relationship with my sister & made my life a total nightmare. Thankfully he has been following the no contact protection rules but they will be re-evaluated in the weeks before I give birth to our baby. I was told by head of deployment and also a 1st sgt that I should avoid filing for divorce until I give birth due to insurance purposes as I will be left without healthcare upon filing. What can I do?? Any advice or helpful information?

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u/Royal_Virus_4411 — 18 hours ago

▲ 6 r/FisherPrice

ISO: Fisher Price Ocean Wonders Infant Car Mirror!!

My baby sister had this (3rd photo) infant car mirror back in 2005 & she absolutely LOVED it!! I am expecting a baby girl in October and I really want to purchase one for her as well. The 1st/2nd photos are the closest I could find to the original mirror that we owned, It seems those were the German base models of the Ocean Wonders mirror. I cannot find any other information on it, or any listed for sale. I have searched the internet for hours looking for one similar enough!!

Its blue, with sea creature art & shaped like a fish bowl/aquarium. I believe its 100% Fisher Price as its really similar to the products in their Ocean Wonders line, and has the same smiling starfish but i cant source the mirror anywhere. Its also not listed on the official Fisher Price Ocean Wonders collection. Its SUPER hard to find!! Any leads?

u/Royal_Virus_4411 — 1 month ago

▲ 1 r/HelpMeFind

ISO 2005 fish bowl/aquarium shaped infant car mirror!!

I only have this photo of it, My baby sister had this infant car mirror back in 2005 & she absolutely LOVED it!! I am expecting a baby girl in October and I really want to purchase one for her as well.

Its blue, with sea creature art & shaped like a fish bowl/aquarium. I believe it might have been fisher price as its really similar to one of the products in their Ocean Wonders line but i cant source the mirror anywhere. Its so hard to find!! Any leads??

u/Royal_Virus_4411 — 1 month ago

▲ 4 r/AskAVeterinarian

My 6 year old cat was fine last night around 8pm but ran in the bedroom at 9am after his morning meal & i noticed his right eye was very squinty and irritated. Its 2-3 hours later, the eye seemed to be improving at first but now his third eyelid is protruding quite a bit more & the discharge has increased (milky white/clearer in color) The last photo was taken when I first noticed it around 9am & the other photos were taken over the course of the following few hours.

Our other cat had double eye chlamydia back in January that was treated and she has not had any flare ups since. Is this likely a scratch or an infection?? It’s Sunday so I was hoping to get him into the vet first thing in the morning tomorrow but I am considering taking him to the ER once my husband gets home in a few hours instead. Im having a hard time making a judgement call on this, What can we expect?? Will his eye most likely be okay? I’ve wiped it once gently with a warm cloth

u/Royal_Virus_4411 — 2 months ago