22 years together, feels like it's ending.
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Hi My wife 46F and I 45M have been together for 22 years, and I'm afraid i might be coming to an end it would be my fault. For the last five months, things have been incredibly difficult. We can't seem to communicate without it turning into an argument, and honestly, I know I'm to blame for a lot of it.
I've been withdrawing from everything and everyone. I'm just so fed up and feel broken. I've even forgotten the good things in my life. I have an amazing wife and two wonderful kids who I love more than anything. My wife has been trying to fix things, but I've been so stressed and in such a bad headspace that I haven't been taking the chances to work on our marriage. I've never acted this way before, and I don't know what's wrong with me.
I don't want to lose my wife. She's still by my side, trying her best, but I'm too clouded to change, and it's worrying me. We've built a really nice life together, and I'd be devastated to lose it all.
anyone been through something similar What should I do? Any advice would be appreciated. I'm desperate to turn things around before it's too late.