u/S_0405

So there is this guy and I can't exactly call him my crush but we do talk to each other and he has kinda confessed that he likes me..We have met around 2 or 3 times and the last time I met he told me something I don't know how to respond to.

The last time I met him was when we had a shoot which he called me for. Along with us there were 5-6 other members. After practice that day, they had booked rooms for us to stay in. Some of us thought of going out for dinner and when we were coming back this guy suddenly got a call. The call went on until we reached back to the hotel and during that time he was off by himself to the side when we were all walking. Ofcourse, I asked him about it later and he told me it's nothing. I did not pester him and he told me he was a little busy so I went to my room and fell asleep.

The next day was our shoot and when we had breaks in between we would talk. During one such break, he called me to the side and told me he would tell me what happened. Then he confessed. He told me that he had an affair with his student in his dance class( he's a tutor) and that she was married at the time. Her husband caught their affair and called him to ask about it and stuff. He told me that that was who had called him last night too. Ofcourse I told him to stop talking to her. He told me that it's not that easy and even if he stops, she keeps on calling him and tells him how scared she is about what her husband will do and this makes him anxious too. He told me he was very lonely during that phase and he couldn't stop himself from doing what he did.

Now i'm confused because I asked him if she was not married would you have been together and he said yes because we have that connection. But he also told me he likes me on the same day? I'm confused and idk what to do. We do chat frequently but not all the time. This is also a sensitive topic for me because I know what it feels like to be the other woman.

Any advice on how to move forward or what to do? I just wanted to get this off my chest.