Having trouble educating/radicalizing my friend
So recently i have quickly figured out that my best friend is relatively clueless about politics and clearly has a lot of deprogramming to do from capitalist and specifically liberal propaganda. For context they are Colombian but have lived most of their life in the US and i am Czech, never been to the US, which gives me a much easier time seeing through the veil of lies as an outside observer. I am most concerned with and educated on US politics as they are the global hegemon and Czechia are extremely close allies with both the US and Israel but i try to have at least some knowledge on all parts of the worlds.
I am an Anarcho-Communist and my friend is.. unknown. They do not know what to describe themselves as and neither do I so that is the first thing i need help with.
I tried working with the process of elimination but that didnt really lead me anywhere because they:
Cannot be a liberal or Soc Dem because they are anti-capitalist
They cannot be a fascist or really anything right OF Soc Dem because they are a leftist in terms of social issues
They cannot be a communist because, in their own words, they "do not like capitalism but also don't like the other extreme" while acknowledging they have and aren't opposed to having extreme opinions
when i asked them what part of communism they are skeptical about they told me they didn't know and actually asked me for a definition OF communism to which i replied and explained in very simple terms "a moneyless, classless, stateless society" as well as explaining the "to each according to his ability, to each according to his needs" quote again in simple terms.
They then told me they would have to do their own research first to which i agreed and am now waiting for the results.
So that leaves me with the conclusion that they are a socialist but not a communist. Which i feel is nonsensical both from a modern and an orthodox perspective as Marx personally didnt differentiate between Socialism and Communism and from a modern perspective Socialism is a transitionary period between Capitalism and Communism.
Apart from this though their general beliefs and allegiances are very very liberal-coded.
For example when i tell them to support a third party they repeat the lesser evil argument and say that a third party has no chance of winning anyways. Yes I've explained to them that even in more "revolution-prone" countries it still takes decades to build a legitimate third party, they seemingly did not change their view
When i describe to them why people like Sanders and Mamdani are not socialists, only social democrats and explain to them both why reforms both only harm socialism and that social democracy is still very compatible and arguably even more dependent on imperialism and colonialism they get upset at me for condemning Mamdani because hes "the only politician actually doing something, hes fixing New York City, etc."
For some reason they remain hell bent on not condemning Mamdani overall despite the blatant zionism and lies he has spent his entire time in office spreading because he has done sooo much for NYC.
While at the same time arguing with me that he is just a mayor and has no real power, etc etc. (Which i have always had issue with as an argument regardless. He isnt just a mayor he is the mayor of fucking NEW. YORK. one of THE most politically significant cities on the face of the planet ESPECIALLY to Zionism, the only place more important to Zionism than that is Tel Aviv itself. He has probably the most power that is possible FOR a mayor of ANY city on EARTH to have so i am not buying it).
I want to talk more about this especially the Mamdani glazing and other similar liberal claptrap they still believe in but this post is too long already and i would like to not be seen as insane because REMINDER: this isnt a vent post, i legitimately need help in how to approach radicalizing them. I have been friends with them for years and know that they have a baseline of ethics and principles they hold. They have always been a Leftist on all social issues like Race, sex and gender and they have always been skeptical of Capitalism and much more open to Socialism and its ideas. I have no reason to believe they are some secret reactionary or even that they are truly a liberal or Soc Dem in their heart of hearts, they really just seem to be uneducated about politics and fallen for propaganda. i mean, just recently i had to explain how Liberals aren't on the left but are just polite fascists. So it is clear they arent very radicalized or deprogrammed from that world of propaganda but they seem to be open to it, just more stubborn in some areas than others.