45 [F4R] Colorado or online, tall, quirky coffee lover seeks outside of the box thinker for connection
Hi there! I’m a 45 married female, neurospicy, a bit gender fluid, and looking for a connection. My NP and I date separately. I have 2 teens, a handful of pets, and live with them in Colorado. I am open to local or long distance…bonus if there are direct flights between you and Denver. If long distance, be prepared that it will likely take more work and communication on the front end in order to establish rapport and trust, as well as directness about what we are both looking for and able to offer.
I’m an INFJ and am a mix of silly and intense. I value kindness and empathy. While I can and do find joy in the everyday experience of being alive, I’m also fully aware of what a cruel and unfair place this world can sometimes be. I’m politically pretty far left and believe that the ultimate indicator of a healthy society would be that the most vulnerable and marginalized people would be taken care of and valued. I love coffee, music, deep conversations, and nature.
I relate best to people who think often about life, meaning, and the human experience and who would enjoy talking about those things over a cup of coffee or on a long walk in the woods. You can be an idealist or a cynic. You can be trying to construct meaning, working to change the world a bit while you are here, or embracing the absurdity of it all. Whatever the case, what matters to me is that you choose it and aren’t just a cog in the wheel who is unaware that they are cog in the wheel. I also value people who can discuss various viewpoints and are open to changing their minds sometimes.
I’m very tall, have a thinner build, brown hair, and dark eyes. I’m pansexual and demisexual and value an intellectual and emotional connection over physical appearance, but I am often more quickly attracted to people who are tall and a bit lanky. I am kinky but don’t necessarily need that in a relationship, though you being a D type would be a bonus. I will send SFW pics once we’ve established that we are on the same page and have established a level of trust and connection. If you reach out, please include some information about yourself, what you are looking for specifically, and why we might have the potential to be a good match.