u/Sad-Preparation2951

I moved back to India almost four months ago after living in Ireland. Returning wasn't really part of my long-term plan, but due to the changing immigration and work visa policies, I eventually had to make the difficult decision to come back.

I genuinely believed I'd be able to rebuild my career fairly quickly once I returned. I've been applying consistently for Product Manager and Customer Success roles, but despite hundreds of applications, interviews have been few and I still haven't been able to secure a job.

What's been even harder is readjusting to life here. I never expected reverse culture shock to hit me this hard. The traffic, noise, lack of personal space and privacy, and the overall pace of daily life have been overwhelming after spending time abroad.

The combination of unemployment and struggling to readjust has started taking a toll on my mental health. I'm finding myself feeling more anxious and low as the weeks go by. Some days I wonder if I'll ever feel settled again.

I'm posting here because I'm hoping to hear from others who've been through something similar

. If you've moved back to India after living abroad, how did you cope with reverse culture shock? How long did it take before things started to feel normal again? And for those who had to restart their careers after returning, what helped you get back on your feet?

I'd really appreciate any advice or experiences you're willing to share.

I've been reading about the 4B movement and have seen a lot of strong opinions about it online. Depending on who you ask, it's either an understandable response to women's experiences or a radical movement that ultimately creates more division between men and women.

As a woman, I'm curious about how men actually perceive it, rather than relying on social media commentary. I'm not here to argue or convince anyone that one side is right or wrong—I genuinely want to understand your perspective.

If the 4B movement were to become much more widespread, how do you think it would affect men? Would it change the way you approach dating, marriage, or having a family? Do you think most men would simply adapt and move on, or do you think it could have broader social or cultural consequences?

Do you see the movement as something that reflects deeper issues between men and women, or do you think it's primarily an online phenomenon that won't have much real-world impact? Has it changed the way you view modern relationships or the current dating landscape?

I'm especially interested in hearing thoughtful responses from women of different ages and relationship statuses. Whether you support the movement, oppose it, or are completely indifferent, I'd like to understand why you feel that way.

Please keep the discussion respectful. My goal is to understand different perspectives, not to start a gender war.