u/SadHedgehog8321

I’m F but was raised as “one of the boys” so I’ve done a lot of hunting and fishing my whole life and I absolutely love it. I’m also kind of a girly girl though. My dad and I still fish a lot together even though I’m a full blown adult with my own house now. We like to go “noodlin” for catfish which requires you to wrestle it with your bare hands basically. When I was younger I’d always wear a t shirt but when I started becoming a teenager I didn’t want the tan lines, I started wearing traditional bathing suits and as you can imagine wrestling a catfish you’re bound to have wardrobe malfunctions. It was awkward for the first few years but now 10+ years later it literally doesn’t even phase me anymore or my dad it’s just normal now for it to happen. We don’t get to fish as much as we used too but I still enjoy when we do.

Hi everyone, for some context I’m a 39 year old F realtor in North America, a wife and a mother of 2. My best friend and myself have built a business together that we are extremely proud of.

Girlfriends and family always warned me about going to houses alone and bringing male clients around to showings and I’d always explain that it’s not like that. I’d hadn’t heard of anything happening to anybody and I just never thought about it honestly. I’ve had much worse problems trying to get McDonald’s on a Saturday night then I’ve ever had at work.

Well until a few weeks ago. A male client, mid 40s had asked to see some lake front properties. No problem I thought. I picked him up and went to one, great he loved it. Went to another, didn’t like it so much. Went to a third and that’s when it happened. We had a seemingly total normal day all day. Nothing weird no bad vibes. I was in shock. I didn’t know what the hell was going on. I was scared and alone with nobody close by for help. I let it happen I didn’t fight I just accepted it. I’m trying to come to terms with it all now but it’s difficult. I didn’t report it yet. I know I fucked up doing so but I’m not going to dwell on my mistakes. I need to move on and get better from this.