u/SadTwink_69

I’m 20 now and never had a gf or not even a first kiss or nothin. I low key feel like a loser for asking here and would appreciate some genuine advice. I’ve always struggled to connect w people let alone girls and often try my best to make small talk but it never really goes beyond that. Most girls I try to talk to, it kind of just ends up being a one sided convo where I try to make small talk and ask questions and I don’t get much from them. I’m decently attractive looking but not a supermodel so it’s rare I stand out. Also I’ve realized that personality matters a lot, especially over looks. I try my best to be genuine and interesting but my efforts just ain’t enough for anyone and it hurts. I’m also a shy and awkward person so I can’t approach a girl and ‘rizz’ them up like a lot of people and I lack the confidence to approach girls in general. Any advice? Thank