u/Sad_Gate_7144

My husbands bday is coming up in 2 months and I just want to be prepared. He loves video games but only gets to play them after the kids are in bed. But he really wants code vein 2 pc game which he will be getting. I also thought about getting him lighting for behind the monitors so it lights up the wall. Would that be a good idea?

So I need candy ideas! He loves gummies not a chocolate fan. I need some video game themed candy.

The video games he is really into or that I'm thinking about making gummy themed are:

Dragon ball z

Pokemon

Code vein

7 days to die (zombies- maybe juice filled brain gummies)

Elden ring

Even mario brothers etc.

Any ideas what candy to get? ​

I (30F) want to tell my (almost 19M) brother politely that his gf sucks! He is my youngest brother. He's the baby in the family. He has the sweetest soul and would never intentionally hurt someone. He's a goofball, filled with life and an amazing uncle to my kids. A little back story, my parents dog who was almost 16 died 2 weeks ago. My brother took it especially hard since he has been his buddy since he was just 3 years old. He was devastated! I mean would visit his grave every morning. It hurt seeing him so heart broken.

His girlfriend is absolutely horrible. She started off on the wrong foot by trying to completely ignore my family when she would come over. She would dart for the basement and ignore my parents when they would say hi. My family is very family oriented and very kind, so no reason she should have acted that way.

She is incredibly bossy. Tells him what to do and not do. She was friends with my sister who is also the same age, up until she decided to vent texting my sister saying awful things about my brother. He had to go to the hospital and after the hospital he just wanted to go home because he felt sick. She demanded that my parents would drive him 20 minutes to the school where she was because she "needed" a hug. Because he didn't she snapped on my sister.

Tonight was prom. She demanded that my parents would pay for her meal and pay for her flowers. My brother mentioned to her that he was supposed to buy the corsage and she was to buy the boutineer. She refused and started a big fight.

When the dog passed away he was really upset, to be expected. He was visibly upset and my sister said this girl was rolling her eyes annoyed with my brother. She told him in the middle of it, "you know my drink in my car? Yeah go get it for me" . He did to avoid arguing and he was too upset to care. This dog used to cuddle with him, sleep and just go everywhere with my brother.

my sister told me today that she was walking the hallway in school and this girl kept yelling her name. My brothers gf told her excitedly, "guess what? Guess what? YOUR DOG DIED!!" and started laughing. My mom told my sister to not say anything yet. She's going to tell him after prom. It was too fresh. There are so many other stories. She also has no life in her. Their behaviors don't match. Their personalities are polar opposite.

I'm hoping he realizes she's not right for him. I hate seeing him this unhappy. If he doesn't end up breaking up with her, how do I tell him he deserves better and that his gf is in other words a total POS without upsetting him? My brother is so important in my life. I just want to see him grow being very happy. I miss him too and my kids miss him (she doesn't want to share attention even though she will just sit there and do nothing and tell my brother 'no' to everything.) But bc of it when she's around it comes off as he's not allowed to socialize.

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