u/Sadistic_Corruption

Hey so I’m trying to unlock new tales for the arena in the dlc but no matter what a search on google it just tells me to get all 12 of the boasts to unlock more tales but that didn’t do anything. I have all 12 but still only have the two tales unlocked that I started with. I want to get the Odin armor to run through the rest of the base game with (not trying to do the entire Ragnarok dlc right now) but nothing I’ve found tells me how to how get the new tales and the stuff in the game itself is un wholly unhelpful. So if someone could please enlighten me on how to get like 3-4 of them unlocked in the shortest amount of time possible I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks in advance.

Going to preface this by saying I have terrible adhd and cannot remember if I’ve post and asked about this before. At least the first part. I also apologize as this may be a long post.

So the first thing I’m unsure of. Is I’ll go by and respond to any pronouns that people wish to call me (usually he/him cause I’m in every outward appearing way male). But I don’t know what the fact that I’m okay with and will respond to being called by any pronoun has any kind of meaning or term aside from the fact that I don’t care what people call me by as long as their respectful. So I’m just wondering if there’s a name or anything for being okay with being called any kind of pronoun.

The next is that starting pretty much this year I’ve been spending a lot of time thinking about who I am, what my sexuality is and things of that nature. And ive come to believe/realize that I am bi/gynesexual. And accepting and realizing that has taken weight off my shoulders.

But another part of me just feels like there’s more to me that I either don’t understand or don’t know what to do with.

To preface this next part little bit of back story I spent the first 20 years of my life (currently 31 going on 32) going to church every Sunday add being told I’m a man and am straight. And everything else is wrong.

So when I was growing up and felt like all my problems in life would be non existent or at least be easier to handle if I had been born a woman. I chalked it up to my exorbitant mental illnesses that I’ve been struggling with my entire life.

But now as I’m really taking the time to look at myself and try to understand myself better. I’m begging to wonder if there may have been more to it than that. I don’t believe I’m trans in any way.

But at the same time, I prefer my hair long rather than short, and when I do cut it. I like things like pixie cuts and the like. And I don’t own any, but I also don’t mind wearing women’s clothing at all. And I’m things like videogames or TTRPG’s like D&D I find myself drawn to playing women characters more than men. Especially in TTRPG’s.

So like. I just don’t fully understand where I stand or if there is even a spot for me to stand in the first place. Let alone what label I would slap onto all of this.

Sure labels aren’t important in the grand scheme of things. But I would very much like to know where I am and understand more of who I am.

Hello lovelies. I need some help/advice. So just going to say this now but this may be a bit of a long post so please bear with me.

To preface this I am a 31m but I will also respond to any and all pronouns when used to refer to me. But that’s a topic for another time.

So for the first twenty some odd years of my life, I grew up going to church and pretty much shoving a part of myself in a deep and dark corner of my mind. But after I stepped away from the church divorced my ex wife six some odd years ago and started really looking at myself. I believed myself to actually be bisexual instead of straight.

But here’s where my confusion and need of help comes in. I don’t know if I’m actually fully attracted to men or not because the only time I’m actually comfortable doing anything remotely sexual with a man is when I’m drunk.

When I’m sober I can admit when a man is handsome or good looking. But I don’t know if I could see myself dating them or getting into a long term relationship with them. But there has been a single instance (legitimately only one) where I got extreme butterflies in my stomach all because a man smiled at me.

So my confusion lies in the fact that I’m unsure how to proceed in that regard. And with the fact that I may just be Gynesexual. IE attracted to femininity in all forms. Cause if someone looks feminine enough, I honestly do not care what is between their legs or how they identify themselves. I could and would date them with the intents of a long lasting relationship.

So I just don’t know where I stand with things. Also like, a label in and of itself doesn’t necessarily matter to me. But the reason I’m here is because I’m just trying to find out who I truly I am. It’s just been something that’s been on my mind a lot lately and so I would greatly appreciate and responses.

Thank you all to those who took the time to read and respond to this. I wish you all the best. 🩶