I'm trying to figure out how to get into/what the queer scene looks like for tallahassee. I'm not super into bars/drinking so i'm not sure what all exists beyond that. 27 year old lesbian trying to put herself back out there but I have no idea where to look.
Suggestions super appreciated!
this is my first time making a post quite like this so i'm not entirely sure what information to put down! here's the gist of it:
hi, my name is mary! im 27 years old, afab girl sort of with a weird genderqueer lesbian relationship with gender identity.
i'm looking for someone i can flirt with, hang out with, call, maybe game with; just enjoy the presence of someone else. i dont want any pressure to put a label on anything, but i am very open to seeing how the connection flows and what comes out of it. i'm truly open for just about anything. i would prefer someone atleast in the same timezone as me, but i'm willing to make anything work.
a bunch of information about me:
-5'1ish
-chubbier side but it's something i'm actively trying to work on with going to the gym, running and calore defecits! (im no health nut, just trying to do whats best for me! i dont care what body type you are)
-i generally dress pretty androgynous, but on occasion i'll wear something more feminine or super masculine
-very open about myself, ask me anything!
-im a highschool teacher!
-i crochet, draw and paint. i love art and wish i had more time for it honestly!
-i love being involved in the community and going to events, but i also love a good night in. im am ambivert for sure
-i love video games (currently playing a lot of valorant and "friendslop" type games!) would love more people to play with
-my favorite movies are babylon, jojo rabbit and girl interrupted! (honorable mentions to rocky horror & but im a cheerleader)
-my favorite shows currently are wentworth, abbott elementary and my little pony
-im a theatre nerd, love watching muscials and plays. seeing broadway shows in person for the first time was lifechanging! my favorite musical is cabaret
-switch but i tend to lean more top & dom
-to be upfront and open, i am diagnosed with a handfull of things regarding mental health. i take my medication and i would like to think i'm in a stable place and am generally an emotionally mature and capable person. some setbacks can happen of course, and i'd like whoever i speak with to be able to make the choice of talking to me or not knowing this :)
-i am against generative ai and believe in a free palestine (this does not mean i believe in antisemitism, dont come in my dms with that either) i would prefer not to speak to people who have differing beliefs in those regards, they are important beliefs to me!
Made a post here and literally got 40+ dms like this. I also have lesbian in my username!! Why are men like this. I gave some the benefit of the doubt and assumed maybe it got on their feed or something and explained "hey sorry the post you found me from is a lesbian subbreddit" and guys would STILL go and say things like "I can be the exception" or "I just want friends why does it matter I'm a guy" like omg. Why are they so insufferable
EDIT; to clarify i am aware this is NOT a lesbian exclusive community. it is sapphic and i love that it is! i only told the cishet guys that it was a "lesbian community" because i didnt want to go into the details of what being sapphic is, was just a quick way of telling them to buzz off since its not a community for them!
Hey! Looking for someone sapphic to be friends with and play games with who is cool with me being super flirtatious.
It's totally fine if you're shy or get flustered easily (I actually quite enjoy that) and just let me take the reigns! Main game me and my friends play is Valorant in NA servers on PC so it would be great if you play it. We do some other stuff like friendslop games and I personally enjoy games like Lethal Company, Phasmaphobia, Minecraft, etc. I have a bunch of games in my steam library.
I'm not looking for anything super serious out of the gate, but maybe it could be if it develops that way. Just be honest with me about what you're looking for!
Some info about me: 27 cis girl, she/they pronouns. Outside of games I like to cook, crochet, draw, watch shows, love d&d but only played it a few times, love tabletop stuff in general, I can either be super quiet or super loud depending on my mood and the vibe. I'm a very open person and I would say I'm good at communicating! Currently live in Florida, planning on moving to either MN or NY next year!
Only requirement for you is to be an adult (I don't mind if you're younger or a bit older), be chill and play games or atleast be down to sit in call. Bonus points if you're up for movie nights too!