u/Sammiforeveryoung

I got my degrees in accounting and for most of the past 26 years I've loved it. But after my mom died something in me changed and I know longer enjoy it. I want to be around people more. How do I transfer my skills to another job that is more forward facing?

I was just let go from my job today. From that moment on all I wanted was for my husband to come home and hold me, comfort me, and tell me how we can work through this together. But since he came home he's reminded me that this wasn't a surprise, that they don't owe me anything, and then he made himself dinner. I'm now in bed crying my eyes out while he's in another room.

Why is he so emotionally distant when I need him to be close?

TL;DR I'm crying and my husband doesn't comfort me, why not?