u/Sandhya32

I’m a 32 year-old Tamil woman, divorced 2 years back, and a single mother to a 5year-old son. My family ,friends,wellwishers suggesting me for second marriage, my female colleague waiting for my opinion about marrying her relative guy, He is also divorced age 33, very fitness-oriented, and seems good attitude with great ethical thoughts ,handsome as well so thinking about making my yes for him but few questions,

is my decision of second marriage look selfish?

In future Will make my son to see my decision as selfish ?

Genuine opinions are welcome, positive or negative no issues?