u/ScarcityDry1491

Hey all, I’m male 35 working as software engineer I have been married for 7 years now and my wife is 28 years old housewife and we have 2 daughters 4.5 years and 3 years. From last 5 years we are staying nuclear initially we stayed with my family for 1.5 years. Now the problem is my wife is very very toxic and controlling. She takes control of all my salary, she questions me even if I take 15 mins more to come to home from office. She keeps doing video call every hour or so just to check where I am and if I don’t pick she questions my loyalty and fights. I’m fed up of this mental torture and sometimes I get suicidal thoughts. I’m just managing all this for the sake of my daughters. I don’t know how long I can handle this. Need advice