PE or something else?
I’ve been debating whether I have PE or not. I just don’t understand anymore because my sexual experiences are always so different.
The first time I had sex, I could get hard but couldn’t orgasm through penetration. It felt like there was no sensation in my penis. Weirdly enough, I could stay hard back then. I assume this was due to excitement and maybe a bit of stress.
Now I’m with a girl who is perhaps more experienced, and I stopped watching porn about 10 months ago. I tend to climax within 20–30 good strokes. I’ve tried going slowly, going hard, and relaxing my stomach and all the muscles below, but I still sometimes finish quickly. Other times, I can last several minutes while staying 100% hard. And strangely, I often can’t get fully hard for a second round even though I’m still horny, although sometimes I can.
It’s frustrating.
So in summary, most of the time I climax quickly, but sometimes I can last more than a few minutes.
Now I’m trying to figure out how to deal with this. I suspect it might be related to excessive masturbation when I was younger. From a young age until I was 22, I masturbated multiple times a day. On free days, it wasn’t unusual to do it up to 7 times per day in quick sessions just to finish.
I have a GP appointment tomorrow, so I’ll ask them the same question (not sure what to expect, honestly). I was curious what you think about this.