Unsure reality
I love my husband but sometimes it feels like he’s not so much in love like he use to be. We have 2 kids 1 being a toddler and the other an infant it doesn’t take much to handle them but to him sometimes it’s too much to take on. He either sighs or complains dramatically! I often find it easier to do things myself but I crave the help from my partner. He claims it’s a mother’s job to do daily things for the children not the fathers which I find NOT true! Plus we’ve been arguing a bit too much lately in front of your girls. I find myself holding my toddler to assure her that I’m okay. It use to not be this way until we moved to what has been the hardest season of our lives living somewhere we feel we don’t belong. I just want my husband back but feel he’s now changed into someone I never married to begin with. How do I move forward from the way I feel ? When I talk with him it feels as if he’s not understanding or doesn’t want to hear what I truly have to say.