r/surrendered_wife

I’m so coodependent… right
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I’m so coodependent… right

Me (30sF) and my husband (40sM) had our problems but nothing i thought this bad. We were planning to move to a different palce for a new job and finally both of our careers were taking off. And suddenly he told me hes filling for diovrce (by text) and filed within 2 weeks. He also cut off all communication with me, didn't give me a solid reason (except that he doesn't want to be married anymore), told me to move out of the house.

I left the house, got the papers, got a lawyer as he was offering me nothing. I got a lawyer to slow things down. Its been 3 months now. I'm still having a hard time accepting this. Is there any way he can come back? Like at least to try??? ONCE? Counselling? Separation? Therapy? Something? I miss him and just want to go back to "normal" I had with him.

u/Careless_Wrangler_90 — 12 days ago

a female friend asked to call him

My husband has a female friend from way back. She lives far away, and they text sometimes. Once he said he used to have a crush on her. I've always felt a bit uncomfortable about this friend -- I haven't kept up with any guy friends since getting married.

He said recently she asked if they could call, to catch up. I don't think they do this much. I'm trying to stay on my paper and give it no oxygen. I haven't said anything. I don't like it.

Any advice or support welcome!

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u/Previousl3 — 12 days ago