u/Significant-Iron2177

Hello! My husband has a porn addiction and he recently started saying that he only married me out of lust. He says everything time we did anything it was out of lust as well. We are currently separated because of this. Has anyone experience anything like this? I don't believe everything was out of lust. Its been a rough few months full of hardships and he has relapsed multiple times. I wasn't the best supporter unfortunately during this time too. Any advice? Or any books on porn addiction you guys would recommend? Thank you!

Hello! My husband and I have been separated for a month and he still wants a divorce. We are going to have a conversation of where we are at on Saturday night. What would be the best way to express my desire to work on things? Would it be the " I would love..? I just don't want him to feel disrespected or blamed or anything. I'm just having a hard time putting my thoughts and feelings into how the book asks us to. How would you guys word it? More info: He thinks our marrige was a mistake and that he doesn't love me anymore. But we have had a really stressful few months and I believe that was the tipping point for everything. Any advice would be appreciated! ​