u/Sea-Buddy1365

For those of you who are in relationships: How do you actually take the leap and say 'let's be partners' when you feel absolutely zero romantic attraction or sexual desire beforehand? What goes through your mind?

Also, aren't you afraid of disappointing them or lying to them since you don't feel that 'spark'?

And for the guys, aren't you terrified of failing during intimacy? Like, how do you even get an erection or make it work when the desire isn't there?

How do you make that move and deal with all these worries? Curious to hear your stories!"