r/AroAce

(Updates will be at the bottom of the first post) I read a transcript of episode 1 of Hazbin Hotel....

And idk...

my thoughts on it

And I'll add the context since some peeps convientely haven't responded yet after I gave them the context:

I am an adult! I just...

I have seen r-rated stuff before...

And be fine with it...

Heck I watched episode 2 of Knights Of Guinivere a couple days ago!

And yet, there were some moments that made it hard to read...

But there were also parts I enjoyed...

So just because I am wondering, ever been too aroace to comfortably watch something?

And has there ever been a show that despite not being comfy, that you still wanted see more of?...

UPDATE: 10/11: I took a break and I feel a tiny bitter about it... I was just... I guess just steeping in my emotions, which was making things worse.... Idk what I'll do, but I'll figure it out!

I’m aroace and value my sibling relationships as much as some people value their romantic relationships and I’m curious how other people feel.

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I dont know what tag to use but i was just feeling curious like do anyone else have multiple aroace spec microlabels alongside like aroace like personally im aroace, nebula-aroace, apothi-aroace and bold stripe aroace i seen like the oriented aroace people yeah but thats ig kinda it

I think I’m aromantic and maybe allosexual if not probably asexual but I have a high desire for sex and Im just wondering if anyone is like me or can help me figure this out?

For context
I’m a virgin(close enough)
I can talk to girls and had plenty interaction with them even though it was mostly forced or surface level
I never dated(elementary doesn’t count,and a one day relationship doesn’t either)
I’m 21 years old

I'm W23 and never had a relationship or kiss and iirc the last big crush I had was in 10th grade.

I can definitely say, during my school years, I thought to not pursue a partner because they want to do 🔞 and even now the idea to do 🔞 gives me the ick. Those stuff happening in books, fanfics or drawings are fine but these things happening to me? Nope.

Even something like kissing and the thought of kissing a Woman or Man makes me go "no thank you. I don't need that".

Now the thing is, I personally don't see anything wrong with my "No thank you." View regarding looking for a relationship but I never really allowed myself to think that I could maybe be part of this.

Speaking the ultimate thoughts of "I don't see myself wanting this" to someone you know irl is scary.

Currently in my early 20s and living with my (very toxic) parents and younger siblings. I'm unable to work (at least currently) due to my disabilities and mental health, and this alone means I'm unable to make any money, aside from on vinted and selling stuff online.

And the thing is, I'll never be in a relationship and nor do I want one, I'm aroace. But it absolutely scares me rigid that I'm broke af and unable to move out, plus I'll never be able to move out with a partner because I won't have one. Rent is so expensive but I really need to. I can't even afford private hrt yet without having to use my savings. My mental health is suffering from having to live with them and I hate it.

Im curious cause for me I slowly started realizing my attraction to people was nothing but infatuation, I never actually felt any love it was always infatuation or platonic love and sometimes an obsession to be exactly like the person. Same goes for sexual attraction, I thought I was into someone but it was just me seeing myself in them and wanting to be them. Copying everything they do and how they look down to their mannerisms and thinking it meant I was in love or sexually attracted to them when it wasnt. I never actually felt either the way people described how it was supposed to feel but just thought it meant I loved them more or found them more appealing when in reality it was the complete opposite.