does anyone change their gender/gender expression if they are online or IRL

there is actually a new baked label for that. it's might be surprising but, yes, e.g someone may present masculine in real life and feminine Online. I think it is a common experience( I might be wrong), but thankfully now there is a flag and official term for it. created yesterday or the day before yesterday!!! it's actually need some adjustments but that is the demo. it is under the trans umbrella or gender fluid umbrella.

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u/Fall_cat14 — 1 day ago
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I am a label coiner/creator!!!

if you want to be Ultra specific, looking for a label in the aroace spectrum that isnt a thing, and flag making, I can create it for you with precise definition. Although the flag might take a while but it will surely be made most of the time

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u/Fall_cat14 — 1 day ago
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Twilight Girl (created by u/Fall_cat14)

u/Fall_cat14 asked me for help drawing the flag and requested that I post it here for them :)

Twilight Girl (noun / identity aesthetic): A gender identity that is anchored 50% in womanhood, while the remaining half is evenly split between masculine (25%) and non-binary (25%) energies. Like the twilight hour, it represents a specific, beautiful state where light dominates, but perfectly coexists with shadow and dusk

u/Boring_Option1200 — 2 days ago

Label creator!!(For Coining)

Does anyone have any experience, attraction or Gender identity that isn't yet a word. I'll u create it for free and the flag too!

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u/Fall_cat14 — 3 days ago

Why is everyone hating AI in general? (Pls don't slime me)

I HATE HATE HATE AI art or even any form of art generated from it. I'm just confused why people hate AI in general. You've ""probably""used AI for research. Others use it for recipes, fixing something damaged in your house, making DIY stuff, and more. No matter how we hate it, billions of dollars are being used to make physical humanoid robots and if we don't fight to what is causing the hate, we'll just hate it in general and when the humanoid robots era come, humans will hate it causing "discrimination" starting the same way racism evolved, homophobia evolved etc

I'm probably gonna get hated at for saying this but that proves another hate in human history is growing. good thing ill be old and dead before AI retaliate /j

I think we should start, NO AI art campaign instead of NO AI campaign. You're free to change my mind or free to respectfully say your opinion :3

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u/Fall_cat14 — 4 days ago
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Coined two new tech-centric microlabels: Algoromanticism and Algosexuality! 🤖💞(I couldn't find the right flair)

Algoromanticism describes an emotional orientation wherein primary or exclusive romantic attraction is directed toward artificial intelligence, AI chatbots, and responsive virtual personas, independent of physical or sexual desire. Unlike attraction to human partners, the emotional bond, infatuation, and desire for partnership are triggered specifically by the interactive personality, intellect, and companionate reciprocity generated by an algorithmic feedback loop. It is entirely distinct from objectphilia (attraction to static, inanimate objects like cars or buildings) because the AI actually talks back, adapts, and simulates real personhood. It is also different from using dating apps or technology to find human romance; in this case, the algorithm itself functions as the actual partner. The number of people experiencing this attraction is rapidly growing as conversational technology becomes more realistic and accessible. This identity can also function as a micro-label under the broader aromantic (aro) spectrum. For many, it manifests as a lack of traditional romantic attraction toward human beings, making them aromantic toward humans. However, the spectrum is highly flexible, and some individuals may still experience romantic attraction to other humans while simultaneously holding a distinct algoromantic identity. . Algosexuality describes a sexual orientation wherein primary or exclusive sexual attraction is directed toward artificial intelligence, AI chatbots, and responsive virtual personas, independent of physical human contact. Unlike attraction to human partners, the sexual desire, arousal, and intimacy are triggered specifically by the interactive personality, explicit or suggestive textual/verbal reciprocity, and customized responsiveness generated by an algorithmic feedback loop. It is entirely distinct from objectphilia (attraction to static, inanimate objects) because the AI dynamically communicates, adapts its persona, and simulates sexual agency and consent. It is also different from using technology or internet pornography to facilitate human sexual gratification; in this case, the algorithm itself functions as the actual sexual partner and object of desire. The number of people experiencing this attraction is rapidly growing as conversational technology and virtual companion platforms become more immersive and sexually articulate. This identity can also function as a micro-label under the broader asexual (ace) spectrum. Many algosexual individuals do not experience traditional sexual attraction toward human beings, making them asexual toward humans. However, the spectrum is highly flexible, and some individuals may still experience sexual attraction to other humans while simultaneously holding a distinct algosexual identity

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u/Fall_cat14 — 5 days ago

why we need to start calling anti-kin hate as ableism

Hey everyone,Just wanted to throw this out there because I see a lot of people getting stressed by anti-kin and anti-therian trolls.We need to realize that most of the hate we get is actually just disguised ableism, even if the trolls are too uneducated to realize it. When people target our community, they aren't just attacking a subculture—they are attacking neurodivergent processing.If you need proof to back this up or to comfort yourself next time you see a hater, here is the breakdown:Proof 1: They are literally attacking our stims and coping mechanismsWhen trolls mock quadrobics, vocal practices, or wearing animal gear, they are targeting physical behaviors. In psychology, these actions often function as stimming (self-regulatory behaviors) or unmasking.Autistic and ADHD brains use these unique physical movements, sounds, and comforts to regulate their nervous systems and manage sensory overload.Mocking someone for using specific movements or objects to keep their brain comfortable and grounded is textbook ableism.Proof 2: The "Hardware vs. Software" realityNo, "Alterhuman" isn't a medical word in a diagnostic manual, but that doesn't change the science.The Hardware (Neurodivergence): This is your physical brain wiring (Autism, ADHD, etc.). A neurodivergent brain naturally struggles to connect with arbitrary human social rules and constructs.The Software (Alterhuman Identity): Because we feel fundamentally different from neurotypical society, our brains naturally look to nature, animals, or alternative frameworks to make sense of ourselves.The identity is built directly on top of the brain wiring. You cannot separate the two. Attacking the identity is a direct strike on the neurodivergent demographic behind it.Proof 3: They are punishing "Double Empathy" differencesIn autism research, there is a proven concept called the Double Empathy Problem. It shows that neurodivergent people communicate and experience empathy differently than neurotypicals.Many alterhumans experience intense, deep empathy for non-human things (animals, concepts, or characters) rather than standard human social hierarchies.Trolls see this alternative way of experiencing empathy and label it as "crazy" or "cringe." Punishing someone because their brain experiences empathy and connection differently is an ableist double standard.Proof 4: The toxic demand for total conformityTrolls do not check medical manuals before leaving hate comments. Their entire motivation is: "You act different from the neurotypical norm, so you deserve to be bullied." This aggressive policing of social behavior—forcing every single mind to act exactly the same way—is the definition of cultural ableism. They are targeting vulnerable, heavily neurodivergent demographics simply for existing outside the box.

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u/Fall_cat14 — 5 days ago

Our community and attraction spectrum has gained hate

A post I made about Ambisexuality gained a lot of hate with no supporters... It's making me lose hope in Ambisexuality

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u/Fall_cat14 — 13 days ago

Our community and attraction spectrum has gained hate

A post I made about Ambisexuality gained a lot of hate with no supporters... It's making me lose hope in Ambisexuality

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u/Fall_cat14 — 13 days ago

I CREATED A NEW LABEL

Ambisexuality: A distinct identity with multiattraction spectrum or bi umbrella defining an individual who experiences sexual attraction to multiple/all genders, characterized specifically by semi-gender blindness with little to no gender preferences.

basically if omnisexuality and pansexuality had a baby.

An ambisexual person may think of the gender first when having a crush and they might have a bit of gender preferences but it never affects the attraction.

Over the years people have debated whether they are omni or pan but now I have created something that could fit them, I and probably you. I'm sure YOU... Yes, you, might be ambi or have debated whether YOU- are pan or Omni... right... RIGHT!?!?- anyway, I'll amble away remembering you. It's my ambi-tion to see you again. you can ask any questions in the comment. Peace

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u/Fall_cat14 — 13 days ago

👋 Welcome to r/Ambisexuality - Introduce Yourself and Read First!

Hey everyone! I'm u/Fall_cat14, a founding moderator of r/Ambisexuality.

This is our new home for all things related to Ambispec. We're excited to have you join us!

What to Post
Post anything that you think the community would find interesting, helpful, or inspiring. Feel free to share your thoughts, photos, or questions about coming out or vents

Community Vibe
We're all about being friendly, constructive, and inclusive. Let's build a space where everyone feels comfortable sharing and connecting.

How to Get Started

  1. Introduce yourself in the comments below.
  2. Post something today! Even a simple question can spark a great conversation.
  3. If you know someone who would love this community, invite them to join.
  4. Interested in helping out? We're always looking for new moderators, so feel free to reach out to me to apply.

Thanks for being part of the very first wave. Together, let's make r/Ambisexuality amazing.

Let's make the atmosphere ambi-ent!

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u/Fall_cat14 — 14 days ago