r/XenogendersAndMore

Like actually genuinely confused and seeking someone with knowledge. Came out to both my parents as non binary and they told me to. “Just be gay” and was also confused when I said lesbian trans women exist because apparently trans women are gay men level 2 to my dad ?? How does this make any sense.

Idk if this makes sense. I know the Transmasculine label fits, but I’m curious if there’s something more specific for this feeling. “Man” just feels too serious and binary, but “boy” feels like it fits me more. Like I’m boy-aligned but not really a whole ass man? Demi boy doesn’t really fit bc I feel full “boy”, just not full “man”

Is there a label for somebody whose gender is hard/impossible to label due to depression? We have a recent headmate who fits this sort of description and we want to make her feel more welcome by helping her label her feeling towards gender. Thanks in advance ^_^!

Listen, I would be poly if I could. It just makes sense. But I’m a very anxious person and dealing with more than one person sounds like a lot of work. I also don’t understand what’s so bad about getting cheated on. If I found out my partner cheated on me I’d go “dope! I wish you told me though. But still thats cool as hell!” This might be an autism thing, idk.

So yeah, I don’t like monogamy much. Polyamory sounds cool in theory, and I’ve considered it before. But I still just want only one person in my life romantically for now.

I don’t think I’d call myself this label but I’m still a little curious.

i hate it when ppl treat nb as simply a 3rd gender that is neither male nor female, or as lacking a gender. nb is an umbrella term for any gender identity that isnt strictly male nor female. and yes, u can be a nb trans woman/man, or a nb woman/man in general! nb trans women dont have to call themsleves only transfem bc they r nb and nb trans men dont have to call themselves transmasc bc they r nb, u dont have to be a binary trans woman/man to be a trans woman/man...

For context I am a binary male that uses he/eye pronouns. Would I need to be eyeic or eyegender as well to use those pronouns? I know pronouns don't equal gender but I didn't know if it was different for xenogenders etc

https://preview.redd.it/u5gln0um2jbh1.jpg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=94cc1ede32e263a2afe12367d33682214b521af4

"Greedian, also called greedgender, is a xenogender that is part of the Singender System. The gender is related to:

* Light/brightness, being powerful and also wide.

* The freedom to accumulate other genders.

* The desire for more and more genders, seeking a 'perfect gender', and/or identifying with a lot of genders or terms."

-LGBTQIA+ Wiki

As in, how does one know their gender relates to cats or whatever?

(this isn't meant to be offensive, I am just a bit confused (mostly because I hardly understand gender myself))

My friend said they identify as cannibalgender? A gender where they feel connected to cannibals and cannibalism, i am quite new to xenogenders but I can’t help but wonder is this just more of an aesthetic thing? Or are they genuinely hoping to become a cannibal one day? Sorry if this is rude/offensive to anybody I don’t intend for it to come off that way.