u/Star_Val2026

These images resonate a lot with my identity/spirit for reference. I have a deep connection to celestial objects, specific flora, neon purple, and water.

Obviously you guys can't read my mind, but even tips and suggestions will help me decide. For a bit i thought i might be xenogender, but realized that these things were a part of my identity and spirit, but most likely not my gender. Please feel free to ask questions and HELP ME 😭😭😭 (I'm really struggling to find myself and have found SOOOO many rude people! Looking for support)

I made my own custom pride flag! This is my first time doing anything like this. I am new to the LGBTQ+ community to some sense. I've been an ally for 2 years now (i never hated the lgbt even before that) and i have officially been a part of the LGBTQ for one month. I've faced a lot of hardships and i have nobody to rely on to support me. Despite the struggle, i stay strong and embrace myself. I'm still working on my name and pronouns, but I'm testing the name Val and Star, with the pronouns He/they/she and neopronouns star/stars/starself. I would absolutely love your input, whether it be encouragement, support, name ideas for the flag, testing my name and pronouns, or just vibes! I support everyone here! Now, onto what the flag represents.

This flag represents a unique xenogender identity rooted in both celestial (cosmic/space) and floral (nature/flower) elements. It is designed to capture the feeling of a vibrant, blooming garden growing under a vast night sky. For name ideas I have astroflora and moonpetal. Let me know your thoughts, and feel free to just say say hi! PLEASE ASK AS MANY QUESTIONS AS YOU WANT!