Just joined a trans server and then got disappointed
So I joined a trans server on discord. I hung around for a bit and the people were nice but then i looked at one channel called trans info and it said that people need dysphoria to be trans and anyone who says otherwise is fake trans and they’re the people who will make you call them “bunself” instant leave. I have dysphoria but i didn’t when I first realized I was trans. I only started having dysphoria after. I also use neos including bun/bunself. And I have to wonder if the verification question asking your pronouns is so that they can automatically reject you when you say a Neopronoun. I use any pronouns and that’s what I said so I got verified. There was also a question asking if you had dysphoria which I thought was weird but I should have taken it as a red flag. God this makes me so angry and this is why I tend not to go to non mogai spaces