u/Sea-Diet1376

My boyfriend is on a trip with some family. He called me yesterday morning to tell me they were thinking of going to a strip club. We had previously discussed it and I said that I suppose in the right situation it’s fine, but he can’t do anything (lap dance etc). But when he told me yesterday it made me feel really weird. This is the first time it’s ever actually been a scenario so I didn’t know how’d I’d feel in the moment. Throughout the day, I thought about it and ended up telling him it made me really uncomfortable and I did not want him to go. Well, I just woke up and he told me he went. He doesn’t see the issue as it was his first time and I had originally said he could (like 6 months ago). We’ve been dating for 2 years. What do I do