u/Sea-Sky5581

my sp and i idk what we are, at first they said some stuff like they don’t know what they want and is scared and don’t wanna hurt either of us and I just ignored it internally and said to myself they do need me they want me etc etc and we were flirting and that and then we were hanging out and very cuddly and he even kissed me, but then things got a bit cold again like how it was before, and he say that they are an ‘ avoidant’ and i just say to myself they aren’t that they are secure with me etc, but this sudden coldness really messed with my head and i had a breakdown and cried and all of that, i just want to know if anyone has any words or went through something similar, if this is the BOI, or old thoughts coming out and getting out the way, because i have been seeing lots of positive movements and been doing my affirmations and strongly believing them and going on with my day.

so basically this person and i were flirty then we ended up being friends and a couple months passed and then we saw each other and was heaps flirty and touchy again and then been more interested, we’ve been hanging out talking flirting more, only thing is sometimes they see my story or that but don’t respond to me and sometimes their texts can be sort dry, i want them to continue the conversation and flirt more , i do want a relationship with this person i do like them, but im trying not to be so intense about it and just think it’s already mine and that they like me, and most of all put myself on the pedestal, but sometimes it gets to me knowing they are active and just not replying, anyone have some good advice?

so i really want this person, like badly, we’ve hung out a couple times, we talk sometimes over text and send videos, and they are very attractive, but we are just friends atm, how i do make them see me as more than a friend and get them to want a relationship with me, i have affirmations and i fully believe them, but i want this so badly and i don’t know how to just slow down and focus any advice

im currently manifesting my sp and that, and living in the end, but is it okay to look and talk to other people while manifesting them or does that ruin the manifestation in any way?

So recently I was talking to this person, we’ve hung out kissed, we were practically dating but not officially, but they have recently said they need to focus on themselves and some of their family, is there a way or specific affirmations I can say or do to help with that, i already say sp is committed to me, loving, stable with me etc, and then i move on with my day, not fully attached but deep down i still do really want them, any advice ?