u/SeaIll149

Quick bio: my ex who I was with for 10 years (married 7 of those) cheated on me and left me for his affair partner. We have two little girls together (4 and 6 yrs old). He is 34 his affair partner (who he married just 1 year after our divorce) is 25. They are having a baby together. They also moved 14 hours away so my kids have seen their dad 6 nights in the last 2 1/2 years.

I just so badly want to see them fail. I spiral constantly wondering what the fuck I did to deserve being a single mom.

So anyways those of you who married your affair partner I’m curious what your emotions were. Like did you feel bad? Do you tell people the truth of how you got together. Are you still with the affair partner?

They work at a fire department and everyone thinks they are just the best people and I’m over here knowing the truth about them and I just want everyone to hate them as much as I do.

Me ex and I were together for 10 years with 2 little girls 4 and 6 years old. I found out he was cheating on me with his coworker who is 10 years younger (23). She was also married. He said he was unhappy in the marriage and that I made him feel unloved. (I did the cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping, taking care of the kids, working, cleaning, literally everything.) He stayed out till 4 am partying coming home wasted chronically. Anyways he asked for a divorce, of course I had to file the paperwork. He moved in with his affair partner 2 months after I found out about him cheating. He then moved to Texas. He’s been there for 2 years now has seen the girls for 3 nights in the last 2 years. Him and his affair partner got married and they are having a baby.

Come to find out he actually cheated on me with about 20 different girls and even while I was pregnant with our first. The girls may have a 1/2 sibling that’s only 3 months younger than my oldest.

I guess I’m just really struggling with the fact he is living the life I wanted. Married, has a nice house in the state I wanted to live in, new baby on the way, good career. While I’m stuck picking up the broken pieces for my kids. The one thing I wanted in life was a solid family and now I will NEVER get that.

I so badly wish I could seem them fail but I really think they will be the 2% that make it.