u/SeaNational3797

Tucking without HRT?

Is tucking for long periods of time safe without HRT?

I keep seeing posts about how tucking is safe in general, but they're all on trans subs and don't differentiate between whether it's safe with HRT or without.

I'm like 95% sure I'm doing it right, but my balls feel a bit squeezed and my canals feel a bit stretched. I think(?) that's normal and will lessen as I tuck more, but I'm really scared of an inguinal hernia and could use some reassurance that it's safe (or warning that it's not!)

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u/SeaNational3797 — 5 days ago

A reflection on my recent foray into male fashion as a penis-and-balls-having genderfluid

For fem clothes, it's not their fault, they were just designed for a different type of body. But masc clothes have no excuse to be as tight as they are.

u/SeaNational3797 — 14 days ago

"Can I be—" YES YES YES

"I'm probably genderfluid, but can I idenity as ________ instead?" YES YES YES

"I'm genderfluid but can I also be a ________" YES YES YES

"Can I identify as a Lesbian even though I'm AMAB and usually male?" YES YES YES

"Can I identify as a Bear even though I'm afab and mostly female and only attracted to women and 4'10 and shave my entire body every morning?" YES YES YES

"Can I be a bigender heterohomosexual transcisgender homoheteroromantic with a side of mayo?" YES YES YES

Labels are for YOU. If a label is useful to YOU, then YOU should USE IT. Because it is USEFUL.

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u/SeaNational3797 — 16 days ago

Wish I had a vagina with bottom growth (AMAB)

Have y'all seen those pictures of what a vagina looks like after bottom growth? It looks like the ideal type of genitalia for me. A small but still convincing dick, a hole for penetration, and best of all, NO BALLS!!! EVER!!! I could wear clothes of any kind without any wrong silhouette, and without tucking.

It feels so weird to say this as an AMAB though. Getting bottom surgery just to go on T after for bottom growth feels redundant and counterintuitive, but it's certainly an option and might be the optimal type of genitalia.

This is a random thought that I probably won't pursue, especially since I don't really get bottom dysphoria at all and am getting better at tucking. But like...it would be so cool

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u/SeaNational3797 — 18 days ago

What the hell happened to me?

Six months ago, I was doing great. I had a dope male bod, a dope male beard, and a dope male personality.

I definitively liked presenting as male. I know for a fact that I was happy being male. And I still have moments like that, but the thoughts of being female keep coming back, and increasingly I find them overtaking more and more of my waking hours

Update: Had a guy's day out (singular guy, me), went to goodwill, didn't even look at the fem clothes, got a dope looking male fit for some male gender euphoria. That was all I needed :)

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u/SeaNational3797 — 19 days ago