AITAH for telling my husband he’s being unsupportive???
I 32F have been married to my 32M husband for 6 years. We have two kids, 3F and 1M. He reconnected with an old friend from college around 3 years ago, we will call him Aaron.
This friend asked him to be his best man in his wedding this fall. He has brothers, but not a good relationship.
For context, I am an elementary teacher and accepted a position in a new district, in a totally different role. Our 3 year old will also be starting preschool in August.
Anyway- my husband told Aaron to schedule a bachelor party whenever and he will make it work. Because my husband have no input, it was scheduled during my first day in my new job, our daughters preschool orientation, and her first day of preschool.
He said he takes his duties as a best man seriously and he is not missing. I told him if was unsupportive and disrespectful to his daughter and I. He said I don’t understand that my input is to suggest them scheduling around us whereas I felt he could share that was the one stretch of 4 days that he would be unable to attend.
He told me his parents would help with our daughter. AITAH for feeling like this is showing how important he takes parenting and showing up for us?