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El miércoles fui a un bar gay llamado Maluka, que queda en Obarrio. Ese dia tenian una dinámica donde te ponen un sticker para escoger a alguien a quien besar o que te escogieran a ti. Yo la verdad fui a parkear con unos frenes, pero me anoté por curiosidad.

El bar no estaba muy lleno. Podían haber unos 8/10 chicos más y no todos tenían el sticker. Yo eché mis miradas alrededor pero no vi nada interesante asi que seguí hablando con mis frenes. La vaina es que ya entrada la noche, tipo 11pm, llegó un chico que parecía chino. El man andaba solo y no parecía de por aquí, porque estaba grabando el local con su celular.

La verdad nunca habia visto un chino gay, asi que me dio intriga y pensé voy a intentarlo con éste. Esperé que al man le pusieran su sticker y me le acerqué a pedirle el beso (dentro de la dinamica te pueden rechazar, asi q yo no le dije nada al mesero por si no se deba, quedará entre el y yo namas xD). La cosa es que el man aceptó el beso 🫢🤣. Luego de eso le traté de hacer conversa pero me di cuenta que no hablaba mucho español, asi que cambié al inglés.

Ya con más confianza el man me contó que era taiwanés, que estaba de paso unos dias por Panamá. Luego lo integré al grupo de mis amigos, bailamos bastante hasta q cerraron el bar y nos fuimos a refinar al motete.

Al dia siguiente nos vimos de nuevo, fuimos a cenar y a pasear un rato por Via Argentina. Y luego me invitó a que fuera a su hotel, para despedir su última noche en Panamá. El último día lo llevé a desayunar a una fonda pa que probará lo bueno antes de partir.

La verdad la pasamos prity, el man era muy atento, cariñoso y sin pena. Varias veces nos agarramos la mano y nos besamos en la calle 🫢🫢. También me gustó mucho la experiencia de conocerlo y tener que hablarle sobre nuestra cultura, comida y tradiciones. Cosas que quizas hago todos los días, pero para alguien de afuera son desconocidas.

Así que ya saben muchachos, pueden darse su vuelta por Maluka a ver si conocen a alguien interesante o al menos a perrear un rato.

Two years ago, I reconnected with an ex-mate from the University through a dating app. We were friends on FB, maybe I liked some of his photos but never talked, so I didn't have any hint he was gay. I saw his photos on the app and I liked how he looked more mature now (from 20s to 30s). We matched on the app and started talking through WhatsApp. So we talked a lot, but like updating our lives and things like that. He also told me he was on the app, looking for friends because he doesn't have many (I gave like to his profile because I liked him xD).

He then invited me to visit his house, which was in a remote mountain town like 2 hour from my home. He was living there, because he got a work near that town and his parents have that house for vacation. When he said that, I definitely though we were to fuck. Otherwise, why you invite someone to stay and sleep in your home, being you 2 alone. Anyway, I went to the town, he carried me in his car, went to buy some groceries to eat and cook and move to the place. It was a nice place, beautiful home, with a river on the behind part of the property (the river is in a common zone where other people walk and swim).

We also talk a lot, about many things. I tried to keep a safe and standard conversation, but then he from nowhere told me he is a top, so I told him I am a bottom (match?). He also told me about some of his first sexual encounters, which the majority were with professor from the university, many of them very older than him and being like his tutors. Anyway, I couldn't say anything because this wasn't my story. I told him about some of my experiences to and with my only boyfriend. But the conversation kept there. Then we swam at the river, cooked, watched some movies and went to sleep. The funny part is the house has 2 bedrooms: the main one, where he sleeps, has a full bed; meanwhile the other room has 2 twin beds. From the beginning he told me I was going to stay at the room with 2 bedrooms and he was going to sleep in the other. I was like OK. So we went to sleep to our own rooms and nothing happened.

The next day we prepared breakfast, went to visit some places near and finally I went back to my house. So he keep inviting me to his house regularly, like once every 2 month. I went like 2 or 3 times more and again, NOTHING happened. I can understand he may want us to be friends, but I was starting to get bored. And I think we can be friends online or just meet at the main town, eat something, go to the cinema or the beach. Not always be at his home.

Anyway, let's say like 3/4 months had been gone and again he invited. This time I was kind of horny, especially because I was seeing another guy and he basically disappear. So this time, when we were to sleep, I told him I wanted to fuck with him. I thought what would be the worst could happen? Well, He told me he didn't have any desire, he was tired. I felt so stupid but told him it was Okay and run to wash the dishes or something. But when I came back, he was like thinking about it and suddenly, I got closer to him, kiss him and we made out in the sofa. We didn't get naked, just were frotting and kissing, and I could feel he had a very big dick. We slept separately because he said he doesn't like sleeping with other people in the same bed, so I went to my room.

The next day, I pretend to go to his room to talk and give care to his cat, but anyway I ended sucking his dick, which was very big. Definitely I never thought one guy like that were so well hung.

After that, he was fired and move to the city, to live with this parents. We talked and he told me we would repeat again, but then, we only met to eat out or go to a park or things like. Some months later, he mentioned again how much he liked that time we were together and how he would like to repeat again, but didn't do any movement to make that true. So I waited like 2 week (to don't be seen as needy) and told him, the next meeting we should go first to a motel room and then to eat (you know as bottom it is difficult to eat and then, fuck). This guy panicked so much, told me some random excuse and say he couldn't go. We replan the meeting, without mentioning the fuck part and things keep going.

Some months later we went to the cinema, kissed in there, maybe I grabbed his dick. But nothing more. And again I talked about going to a place to fuck and the guy was like he needs to think about it and that he would tell me when he wanted.

So I don't know where this is going, if it is going somewhere? He keeps inviting me to go out at least one time per month, but there's never any action. Maybe I should tell him, I don't want to go out anymore if there no sex or something?

TLDR: one guy from University reconnected with me 2 years ago though a dating app. Invited me to his house, which is in the mountains. We were the both alone and never had sex or anything, even told me to sleep in separate rooms. After like 3 or 4 times going his home, I took the lead and told him I wanted to fuck, which after some talking, we did. After that, we kept meeting and going out in the city, kissing and touching in the cinema but when I mentioned to fuck again he panicked and told me, he would tell some excuse and that we could do it in another moment. But never happened again. And he keeps inviting me to going out at least one time per month, so I don't really know what to expect from this "friendship".

Viendo noticias recientes, vi el caso de una estudiante del IPA que intentó salirse del server subiéndose al techo de la escuela Link de la noticia. Según he leido ya este año 2 estudiantes se han quitado la vida por bullying, como fue el caso de Bodoco. Tanto el Meduca como los directores de las escuelas señalan que es poco lo que pueden hacer para eliminar esta conducta, pero ante los casos que escalan a la pérdida de vida de estudiantes, no deberian las autoridades pensar en criminalizar esta práctica? Digo siento que más niños/jóvenes han sido afectados por el bullying que por el exhibicionismo, asi que ya ambos deberian penalizados y hacer que los estudiantes y padres de familia involucrados asuman su responsabilidad penal. No sé que piensan ustedes?