Most Arab men can never talk to a girl and spoil her without it being sexual. Like can we have a genuine connection and get spoiled for it?
The concept of sugar daddy and baby is frowned upon but I think it’s a nice way to create friendships and get extra money for being yourself 🥰
I want one but not need one. I just think it’s nice.
After posting my story of how I ran away
My chat requests were FILLED of people from the sub
All of them asking how did I do it
How can they do it
How they are going through hell and back
The trauma inflicted from their closest ones
Shows how we are so repressed with our sexuality, identity, love and even mentally.
It’s funny how we all trauma bond it’s funny but still so sad.
But this truly aches my heart what an innocent community trying to find love and freedom I hope one day we get to find our safe place in our home countries (just a delusion) but in another lifetime maybe we can find love wherever we are.
Relationships or not, just acceptance by the world.
But we need to survive. All love to who DM’ed me I am more than happy to assist and give my story in boring details every time.
Just to give you guys hope.
All love to every single one of you
But this truly saddens me.
I have dyed my hair red with no bleach almost four years ago now I have red ends and I’m wondering will black blue dye fix it!
Did anyone try with this dye I heard it has ammonia. Any tips?
This is not a motivational speech this is truly what your reality can be..
I am a Muslim
26
Female
In an STRICT KHALEEJI COUNTRY.
The most toxic household.
Before and after them knowing I am gay. Was hell on earth.
Where being your self is a crime.
Where an environment hates you just for breathing.
This is when you leave.
I left at 5:45 AM
In the middle of the war
Got picked up
Bags on the right side the other on the left.
Truly cinematic
Police got involved
I was truly f*cked.
But few months in..
Guess what.
After YEARS of suicidal thoughts and being committed to a psych wards and being cheated on my entire life.
I’m free
I’m happy
And with truly the love of my life.
(She picked me up and dealt with the police with me)
WE IVE TOGETHER.
Got brand new apartment cities away from my family. With new furniture new everything.
It still feels like a dream…
But in conclusion.
I f*cking did it!!!!!
And you can too please let’s make this platform a form of encouragement for other to leave and live a life of freedom, health and joy.
All love to you guys.
(PS: if you want any advice text me)
❤️
For context.
My girlfriend has quiet BPD
I (24F) and my girlfriend (29F) have been together for a year and 4 months. Our relationship started long distant and it started on a rocky boat already. We didn’t even have a honey moon stage.
It all started when I had the worst breakdown of my life that completely changed everything for me. I come from a homophobic house and they found out I’m gay. Being Muslim Arab and gay don’t mix very well. When I used to freak out I used to tell her “I regret putting you in this relationship because I don’t want you to go through all of this with me”
She, naturally nitpicked only on the “I regret putting you in this relationship”
I had 3 breakdowns in all of them I said this sentence on the last and third time she COMPLETELY SWITCHED on me.
She turned from the most loving person to exist to the most cold person I know.
Now fast forward 1 year and 4 months we live together yay!
I ran away from my abusive house and finally we live together.
Right? Wrong.
I realized how manipulative she can be.
I have epilepsy and ADHD which equals to semi memory loss and inaccuracy when doing things. A lot of unintended procrastination and such. She in the other hand a perfectionist and a semi clean freak. I’m not talking about daily cleaning and scrubbing no. I’m talking about making the bed military style and when done I can’t lay on it.
My cleaning style is definitely weaker than hers since my family was wealthier and we only had maids lying around.
What I’m facing with her now is when I’m 100% sure of something I said or happened she tells me that I said it in my head or I don’t say it at all.
Or the fact the most minor things can ruin her day and mood and she projects onto me and she REFUSES to at all acknowledge it. When ever I express my feelings she neglects it gets defensive and doesn’t address how I feel. Matter of fact she turns it against me.
But when she feels something she doesn’t want to hear anything she doesn’t care about an explanation or intention. Just she just wants a sorry and I won’t do this again. Nothing more nothing less
I feel like I’m in the army.
Her tone is so harsh. Her requests are demands because of how bad her tone is. And it gets so bad to the point when she does try to do something nice it goes like this “come here” i say why? She says “come here NOW!” No I won’t what’s happening “I just said come now here” I tell her to atleast say please with a smile then she repeats it “COME NOW”.
She thinks it’s funny because at the end she is doing something nice. But it’s not funny and it would’ve been funny if this tone is not consistent but it’s every daamn day.
Sometimes I try to normalize by saying this is her normal tone this is just her. But I’m too emotional and soft for this shit I just can’t.
I have broken down infront of her multiple times because of her had a multiple seizures because of her. (My kind of epilepsy gets triggered when I’m high intensity of emotions occur)
But nothing. No acknowledgment. No apology. Just a hug and kiss and it’ll be okay :)
It’s been the second month here living with her.
Running away cutting all contact from my family. (She gave me an ultimatum if I talk to them she’ll break up with me because what’s the point of helping me through it all if I’ll talk to them)
I’m so extremely overwhelmed, sad, stressed because of her, my nervous system shuts down because of her. I’m so so sad I can’t even look her in the face I’m just so disgusted .
(Lol while writing this she came kissed me goodnight)
What the actual fuck.
I’m so confused in which version am I with.