I just asked my husband to clean after himself when he makes messes in the kitchen…
He makes meses and never cleans after himself it is taking a toll on me take care of everything and do no have a partner who share the load with me around the house, he never does dishes, laundry or clean. Neither cook.
His response was that in the future he doesn’t want us to worry about this stuff and he will hire some help to take care of it. But I’m not talking about the future. He got really mad like raising voice and even slap himself in the face of the frustration. I just simply asked for help in this moment, clean after yourself in the kitchen that is all.
He wanted to turn this over me that I don’t understand his point. It makes me feel frustrated. We have been dealing with his alcoholism and other things. It is just hard. I do have all the load of the house, caring for a 2 year old and on top of that I work for him doing all the admin for his business.
I ended just not saying anything else, I’m here crying because I feel I don’t have a partner I can count on.
I wish my life would be different. I wish so many things were different.
I’m just here to vent and if you can please pray for me.