Family planning timeline
Growing up my siblings and I had close birthdays and my mom had one big party for us with extended family. Fast forward my kids are all winter birthdays and I do the same. Especially since money is tighter and my husbands family is very large and my family has to fly in from out of state.
We would like a fourth baby, but timing wasn’t right over the summer and now if we were to get pregnant the baby would be born end of summer or fall. So this wouldn’t work for a combined birthday 🙃. I’m 37, so I already feel old. But part of me is like do I wait and pray we get pregnant in one of the three months next summer to where the birthdays would be around the same time? But there would be a larger age gap between the last two instead of 2 years apart? Of just try now and see what happens?
I know this sounds stupid, it IS stupid, but for some reason I’m hung up on a combined birthday party. 🫠