u/Sensitive_Sound4985

The real difference between sexually happy couples and everyone else

The real difference between sexually happy couples and everyone else

I see a lot on this sub talking about dead bedrooms and looking for the “hack” to break out of those cycles.

My wife recently shared with me this article that I feel many couples could benefit from and is fairly innocent to bring up with your spouse.

I’m not going to parented this will solve your issues in the bedroom but I could be a good starting point to go from 0 sex to more regular and enjoyable sex.

I would love to hear thoughts from others on this article as I think it has some important and powerful tool that couples can use to go from no spark to a roaring fire!

I know me and my wife had already done 2 of the 3 things mentioned in the article and are no adding the third one to keep our relationship going in the right direction.

One thing that we both took from this article is that many couples have the “spark” at the beginning of the relationship but at some point the spark dies and leaves many in the dreaded “roommate” phase. From what we have found, breaking out of the roommate phase requires sex/intimacy but not in the way I fear many think. You can’t brute force your marriage out of the roommate phase by going on a vacation or having a kid free weekend, it takes practice and mindful action in order to break free and go from “roommates” to your original loving and intimate relationship that many think has long since passed.

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u/Sensitive_Sound4985 — 3 days ago