I (21f) have been having thoughts on breaking up with my (21m) boyfriend because he gives me a severe ick. Am I a bad person and leading them on?
I 21f have been having thoughts on breaking up with my boyfriend since the beginning of our relationship. I love him but he just gives me the ick. In many ways we are not compatible, such as our views on money and wealth. I enjoy the more expensive things in life, and he is totally against indulging those things, like shopping for example, he also has old fashioned was that I don't subscribe to. Furthermore, I'm not attracted to him. I've tried really hard to put those differences behind us, but i still cannot bring myself to love him for who he is. He has always said that he loves me more, and Im starting to believe that's true.
I just don't know what to do. I love him, but I don't love him enough. It's been 5 months since we've started dating, and I don't want to break his heart.