u/SeymourPanucci

I don't want him to divorce

I've been the other woman for few months now, well they are in an open relationship for few years now.

He told me he was in love with me. I didn't answer to this, actually I said "you can't say that to me"

Last time we met he told me that he was not in love anymore with his wife and mentioned a "if we decide to split"

The thing is I really like him, a lot. But I don't want him to divorce. I mean, I don't want to be in an official relationship with him. My soul is broken from past relationships and knowing he is married was kind of a security net for me. Made me feel safe like this.

I'm afraid he would like to engage in something for official or serious with me. But I don't want to break up with him neither.