u/Shahanshahhh

33M, married/ENM and dating separately. Looking primarily for feedback from women who date men in ENM arrangements. Does this bio make you interested in learning more about me?

Anything read as try-hard or off-putting? I’m especially interested in reactions to the ENM opener humor and if the profile gives you enough sense of what dating me would actually be like.

​Married + ENM, dating separately. No secret wife subplot hiding in season three. 😅

​I’m the kind of person who can somehow turn buying a 3D printer into an entire new personality, decide I want to get seriously strong again and immediately start plotting my way toward a 400+ lb squat, or lose an evening researching something because one innocent question led to seventeen more.

​Dad, night owl, and recovering finance guy. I can talk markets and risk, but I would much rather find ridiculously good food, defend my chaotic Spotify rotation (heavy dubstep, Jelly Roll, and anime scores), or hear about your current obsession.

​I'm not trying to force anything into a predetermined box. I am looking for easy conversation, obvious attraction, and someone who can bounce between dark humor, playful flirting, and complete nonsense without missing a beat.

I'm drawn to smart, weird, passionate people, especially people who are all three. Knowing yourself and being good at banter goes a long way.

​Tell me the rabbit hole you could give a 20-minute TED Talk about with absolutely no preparation.

​Bonus points if you can teach me something, roast me intelligently, or convince me to try something I’ve never done.

I’ve been staying out of my 2010 Ford Fusion recently, and I finally finished the DIY double reflective insulation window covers I’d been working on. Not revolutionary, but this may be one of the best cost-to-benefit upgrades I’ve made to the sedan setup so far.

I cut them to fit the side windows closely, and the difference was immediate. The car feels noticeably less like a greenhouse, there is far less light bleeding in, and the added privacy makes it feel much easier to actually settle down and rest. The photo does not fully show how much darker and more enclosed it feels in person.

I’m sharing because when you’re trying to make the sedan livable, these small practical improvements matter a lot. This was inexpensive, very doable, and made a much bigger comfort difference than I expected. I wish I had made them sooner.

Happy to share what I used and how I measured/cut them if it would help anyone else.