Apart together
I am 39M in Kenya. Running a business within East and Central Africa and stable mentally and relatively financially. I live alone and I have pets and friends.
I have nothing against relationships and marriage and I am intentionally single. Besides, if I were in a relationship it would be a gay one.
However, I am at a point where my family relationships and engagements are becoming difficult and complicated to be in. I am not ready for that why are you not married conversation and especially engaging my family on that.
I have thought about this and after so much soul searching I am now changing my mind and opening up to an apart-together Lavender marriage. I am accommodating to the terms of engagement and other than this I am not foreseeing being in any romantic relationship.