Am I the asshole?
Okay.. so I scheduled a private ultrasound to find out the gender for my gender reveal later this month. My best friend was going to be there to get the gender and she was the only one that was supposed to know since she’s planning the gender reveal.
I ended up inviting my partners mom and sister because I knew his sister really wanted to come to one of the appointments.
When it came time for the tech to figure out the gender, she turned off the big screen to write the gender on her little screen. BUT not only did my best friend look (which is fine obviously) but his sister and mom looked.
The more I think about it, the more it kind of pisses me off. I initially didn’t really care to do a gender reveal, I always wanted to just know immediately. But his mom had said she wanted to be surprised, and my best friend was really excited about the idea of planning a gender reveal for me. So I agreed mainly bc she said she wanted to be surprised.
So now the both found out before me, and I just feel like part of the surprise is ruined.
My best friend ended up texting my mom and telling her since I didn’t feel it was fair for his mom to know and not mine. And then of course I got it out of my mom bc I didn’t want to wait to know if they knew.
But now I’m questioning whether or not to even do the gender reveal, and also questioning if it’s valid for me to be pissed at them about it… 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️