After 6 years my situationship is getting married and never told me
Me F45, was in a situationship with a long time friend, M52. We known each other for many years and have always been really closed. When my marriage started declining we grew closer. At first it was just a warm body but somehow I’ve grown attached to him and I think it was reciprocal. Some times we would spend all our times together and others time he will disappear for weeks.
Recently I’ve learned that he was getting married. He never told me. When I confronted him he first denied and I believed him.
But then I heard it again and this time he could deny. I told him that for me to learn it « outside » was very hurtful.
He came to my place we didn’t speak much. He sat close to me. Cuddling me but I was hurt.
It’s not the fact that he’s getting married that bothers me but that he didn’t told me. Knowing how close I thought we were, I feel betrayed.
Why didn’t he told me?