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Hello brethren!
I joined the Scottish rite locally and then into the knights of saint Andrews . I was at a meeting once and a guy I know said he was a Rosicrucian . He said that I can’t just join the group , I need to be invited . My question is - what is the best way to get recognized to get invited in the order ? I’m a huge fan of Hermes and his teachings and have a great desire to go further . Any opinions or advise would be appreciated .