Did I give the wrong impression?
Hi all, I wanted to seek advice on a certain statement I made with a girl I had gone out with.
We had initially met at a Christian speed dating event and hit it off. We both thankfully felt the same about our initial conversation and wanted to go out for real this time. Having said that, were were both busy the upcoming weeks and would not be able to go out again until about 3 weeks after we initially met.
Fast forward to going out, entire conversation went well and I felt pretty good about everything. I am the type that wants to pray over very important things to me before making spur of the moment decisions. I do also like to loop in close friends and my mom (no siblings or a father in my life).
This is where I need advice. I want to know if what I said after this date is valid. I told her:
"I really enjoyed going out with you. I wanted to be wise and discern where to go from here so I wanted to pray about this. Why dont we reconnect by latest mid-next week?"
I'm looking to grow and better understand. I definitely did not intend to soft reject or string her along.
We ended up going out once more and mutually came to the conclusion it would be best to remain friends.
However, I'd love input from everyone if what I said, or if its a situational thing where it depends on the person when interpreting what I said.