u/Shuvuiia

▲ 25 r/PhD

Never good enough

I just need to yell into the void. Not looking for advice, but wouldn't say no to some peer support.

It's the last year of my PhD, and I just want to hide, stop and burn my thesis.

I feel dumb. Constantly.
I am just ashamed of everything I do.
I try so hard, and still there are always mistakes.
I am surrounded by intelligent people, and I feel like I'm the only muppet in a movie otherwise full of Hollywood stars.

I don't want to talk about this with my colleagues or supervisors because I know it will come off as needy or me fishing for sympathy and praise, but I genuinely question whether I am cut out for this. And I am terrified that people around me also think so. I've published three articles, and I feel ashamed of all of them.

I am exhausted. My kid isn't sleeping and therefore I'm not sleeping, just a while ago I was sick for five weeks with a daycare plague turned into pneumonia, and one professor made a nasty comment about me being away too much.

This feels like a game I lost three rounds ago.

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