u/SigismundMagyar

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Going abroad for a day trip as a second date

Hi everyone,

So as the title says, I (29M) will be going on a day trip abroad with a girl (25F) I met last week.

I found her on Bumble, but I DM’d her on her Instagram, and we set up a date because she wanted to eat a dish from her hometown (a city in Japan).

We then had a few drinks in a pub afterwards, then got KBBQ and I got a bit drunk. I even embarrassingly asked to see her the next day after work, but she said she had an appointment.

When I sobered up, I apologized and said I’d like to see her again. She said she didn’t have any plans Saturday, but she said she might go golfing.

I suggested dinner, drinks, minigolf, a movie - anything.

Then next morning she hit me with “You want to go on a trip abroad with me for a day?”

I got kind of freaked out, but I said yes.

I’m just so worried that I’m going to mess this up somehow. I’ve been single for over 6 years, been on countless dates (rarely even a second) and now I’m going on a date abroad with a girl I met last week.

I made a list of places we can go, places to eat/sightsee, I’ve done my research, sent it to her and she said it was lovely of me to do research and then she said “I’m looking forward to traveling with you ❤️” and then I asked if there was anything she wanted to do, which she made a couple of suggestions herself.

So my question is: Am I completely insane for agreeing to this and if I’m not, how do I not fuck it up?

Thank you very much and I hope you’re all having a wonderful week.

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u/SigismundMagyar — 9 days ago