Hi guys! I'm applying for campus jobs and was just wondering how competitive it is. I really do need a job or else I'm #cooked. I've applied to like 9 different ones already out of anxiety that I might not get one 😔
EDIT: Ty all for ur insights. Off campus jobs it is o7
I've been friends w/ this person since middle school, and now we are going off into college. We're going to different colleges, across states, so it'll be easy just to go no-contact.
They're a really good friend of mine. We've spent a lot of time together, and I've been the most vulnerable to them and vice versa. But in the recent year they've just been ticking me off more than not.
For example, thru the whole school year they would keep touching me as a joke despite me setting very clear boundaries not to. One day when we were having a sleepover they defended saying the n-word? (Theyre not black). Idk. I'm not for that shit. We were in a trio I was the thirdwheel and the other two were dating (one of these ppl is the friend im talking about). So when they broke up obviously I tried to be chill w/ both of them, comfort both ppl. And they got mad at me for comforting the other person. So they were like "i dont wanna be friends with you anymore, [name] made me realize i deserve better". So i was like ok. Then they got mad at ME for not trying to salvage the friendship. N theres a whole other variety of things.
I think the dilemma is that we both invested so much into the friendship and at times, it's generally a good friendship. Like I'm not gonna deny it and say they havent been a good friend but so many things have been putting a bad taste in my mouth recently. Idk, I just dont vibe w/ them anymore.