u/Significant-Gold7401

Which city would you move to? (Imagine logisitics handled)

Let's imagine that visa logistics and a job are handled if international.

I love SoCal for the weather, but I would try Amsterdam for the transportation. Taipei for the food.

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u/Significant-Gold7401 — 10 days ago

Therapy-coded dating advice is lazy

Do you ever wish for more honest evo-psych coded dating advice for lesbians? Something more honest, less "it will happen when you least expect it".

Here is what I've come up with so far:

- attractiveness is diverse for wlw. be masc, be femme, be sporty. appear healthy and fit. don't ignore your appearance.

- "useless lesbian syndrome" or not making the first move is an arbitrage opportunity. if you reach out more often, you will have uber more chances than other single lesbians.

- lesbians (like all women) love high resource competent partners, be one! get educated, find a good job. act confident.

- aging is less of a penalty than it is for straight women, plenty of us like older partners and vice versa. own it.

- lesbian divorce is truly higher than gay and straight divorce. my theory is that women generally have higher expectations of their relationships and more easily walk away. also, higher neuroticism. be aware of this before signing papers.

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I have more controversial takes, but that's my short list.

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u/Significant-Gold7401 — 1 month ago