u/SignificantLychee919

So i got here on reddit yesterday, to ask a question.

Here is my last post:- https://www.reddit.com/r/IndianRelationships/s/CvYNYvFpzQ

After the response i got from reddit i finally asked him, even got late to office today, because of the talk, so i told him what i wanna do and how i want to get into modeling and all, telling him that maybe i have a chance, he just waited for a moment or two and then just laughed, i was taken back by this because i was not expecting that kinda response, he could've said no, i would've taken it properly and wouldn't mind, but laughing is something i don't appreciate, i was quiet and then he told me i may be looking good and all, but this thought of modeling is not for me.

I was quiet all the time and then he said, if i want to try i can try he wouldn't stop me while funnily, smiling through the whole conversation, as if it was some kind of joke or something. I didn't say anything and felt a bit stupid too to even share this to my husband or to even think about it and then we both left for our offices.

Now i feel a bit hurt but i guess he gave me a reality check and i have made my decision to not pursue it.

Also, thanks to all of you who has shown some support yesterday on the post it was good for a while from strangers. Some people even called otherwise but i have ignored them.

Also, some people were asking for my pics in first few messages, please don't ask, i don't even know you guys.

So yeah thank you so much guys.

Leaving this platform soon. Thanks redditors!

So i got here on reddit yesterday, to ask a question.

Here is my last post:- https://www.reddit.com/r/IndianRelationships/s/CvYNYvFpzQ

After the response i got from reddit i finally asked him, even got late to office today, because of the talk, so i told him what i wanna do and how i want to get into modeling and all, telling him that maybe i have a chance, he just waited for a moment or two and then just laughed, i was taken back by this because i was not expecting that kinda response, he could've said no, i would've taken it properly and wouldn't mind, but laughing is something i don't appreciate, i was quiet and then he told me i may be looking good and all, but this thought of modeling is not for me.

I was quiet all the time and then he said, if i want to try i can try he wouldn't stop me while funnily, smiling through the whole conversation, as if it was some kind of joke or something. I didn't say anything and felt a bit stupid too to even share this to my husband or to even think about it and then we both left for our offices.

Now i feel a bit hurt but i guess he gave me a reality check and i have made my decision to not pursue it.

Also, thanks to all of you who has shown some support yesterday on the post it was good for a while from strangers. Some people even called otherwise but i have ignored them.

Also, some people were asking for my pics in first few messages, please don't ask, i don't even know you guys.

So yeah thank you so much guys.

Leaving this platform soon. Thanks redditors!

So i just got onto reddit and want to ask a question.

People who have little to good knowledge please help me with this.

I don't even know if it is a good idea, so i am just putting it here in front of you guys, Me (31F), live with my husband, i look good and go to gym, maintained a good body overall, before marriage, i used to get offers regarding modelling and photoshoot stuff but i never took them seriously, thought that's just fancy stuff.

But now, when i get compliments and stuff i really wanna give it a try, i have been thinking about it from last few days, and tookt this decision but still i have some questions in my mind, the problem is i am not sure if it's a good idea to try it after marriage, because i am now 30+, and even if i make my mind to do it, i don't know how to ask my husband or even how to even tell about it to anyone in my life, like what i am doing..... it's just the stereotypical mindset that's maybe holding me back, idk how the society around me would react regarding this, also whether my husband will give me permission for it or not. What if he doesn't allow, what if he is not comfortable with it, i wanna try it once atleast, maybe things will turn out fine.

Also i don't know how to get into it and if i get into it whether they'll accept someone 30+ and i have very little knowledge about modelling industry.

At this point i don't even know if it's a good idea or not.

So please help me with this, if i should try and talk to my husband about it or not.

Also please tell me the relevant subreddits to ask these questions or any other subreddits where i can ask this.

So i just got onto reddit and want to ask a question.

People who have little to good knowledge please help me with this.

I don't even know if it is a good idea, so i am just putting it here in front of you guys, Me (31F), live with my husband, i look good and go to gym, maintained a good body overall, before marriage, i used to get offers regarding modelling and photoshoot stuff but i never took them seriously, thought that's just fancy stuff.

But now, when i get compliments and stuff i really wanna give it a try, i have been thinking about it from last few days, and tookt this decision but still i have some questions in my mind, the problem is i am not sure if it's a good idea to try it after marriage, because i am now 30+, and even if i make my mind to do it, i don't know how to ask my husband or even how to even tell about it to anyone in my life, like what i am doing..... it's just the stereotypical mindset that's maybe holding me back, idk how the society around me would react regarding this, also whether my husband will give me permission for it or not. What if he doesn't allow, what if he is not comfortable with it, i wanna try it once atleast, maybe things will turn out fine.

Also i don't know how to get into it and if i get into it whether they'll accept someone 30+ and i have very little knowledge about modelling industry.

At this point i don't even know if it's a good idea or not.

So please help me with this, if i should try and talk to my husband about it or not.