u/Significant_human007

30M, Doctor | Telugu | Looking for a match

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30M, doctor by profession, from a middle to upper-middle-class family. I’m a mix of both Andhra and Telangana. I’m the only doctor in my family and currently work in a hospital. I’m fairly grounded and value a simple, peaceful life over appearances or status.

For the sake of transparency, I earn 5L+ per month and am completely financially independent. I mention this only because I feel there’s nothing wrong in being upfront about where I stand financially, especially when looking for something serious. Also I’ve come so far through my own decisions, efforts and choices, and I’m grateful for that.

A little about me:
• 5'7", slightly fair
• Telugu is my mother tongue; I’m also good with Hindi
• Fitness is something I give a lot of importance to
• Slightly introverted initially, but I open up once I’m comfortable
• Love travelling and exploring different parts of the world, especially experiencing different cultures
• Completely independent
• From the open category, but I don’t have caste-based preferences
• I value honesty, mutual respect, good communication and emotional maturity

My current work life is quite balanced—roughly 9–5, no night duties, Sundays off and some Saturdays off. Medicine is my profession, but I don’t necessarily see myself doing it forever. At some point, I’d like to step away from it and pursue something I’m genuinely passionate about. I’d rather take that path based on what I actually want from life than simply continue with something because it is considered a secure or conventional career.

I’ve been through a serious, long-term relationship in the past which eventually ended. It took me some time to get over it. With time, I’ve reached a point where I’m open to finding someone again—this time with a more practical and mature outlook, with the intention of eventually building a life together and getting married.

I’m not looking for someone who perfectly fits a checklist. I’d rather meet someone with whom conversations feel natural, values broadly align and both of us can be ourselves.

If this resonates with you, feel free to DM. We can start with a conversation and take it from there. If things go well between us, we can discuss the more personal details later.

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